“How To Get The Love,
Companionship, And Passion That Has Been Missing From Your Marriage For Far Too Long Back...Even If
YOU Currently Think
You There Is No Way You Can Save Your Marriage”
You will Learn Step by
Step...
How To
Save Your Marriage,
Get Rid Of Serious Marriage Problems, And
Stop A Divorce Almost
Immediately...
Even If...
Everything Else You Have Tried Before Has Failed!
From: Edward Zajac
Subject: What To Do To Save Your Marriage...Today.
Dear Friend,
You aren't reading this letter by accident…
You are reading this letter because you really want to save your marriage.
You may also be feeling frustrated because you have tried everything to make your marriage work and now you are facing the possibility that your marriage might not be saved.
You want to stop a potential divorce and you long for the
love,companionship and passion that you need to feel so that you can save your marriage.
You may be worrying about your children if you have any and wonder what kind of life they will have without their mother or father.
For years people such as yourself have been telling me my story is just like theirs, with only a
few differences between me and them.
You can save your marriage and again have a husband or wife who
will love you more then they hurt you even if everything has you have tried has
previously failed.
You can have the hope that someone knows how to save a marriage that seems beyond repair.
I have seen it happen hundreds of times before with the
wives I have worked with. And it can happen for you. I specialize in saving marriages
that seem beyond hope. You don’t have to settle for the life you’re presently
living!
Maybe you’ve convinced yourself your marriage can’t be saved. Maybe you’ve allowed someone else…maybe even someone who is a marriage
expert…convince you of that. But it’s just not true.
You can’t do anything about the past, but your future is
governed mostly by what you decide to do today.
It doesn't matter how long you have had problems in your marriage. They can be solved.
It doesn't matter how many marriage counselors you have seen...or books you have read...or how long you have had the problems ...I can show you what to do to save your marriage.
Just look at the problems, one of our past clients had and what they accomplished in a very short time.
Why Do So Many
Marriages That Started Out Great
End Up Failing?
But I should introduce myself first. My name is Edward
Zajac, for the last 11 years I have been showing husbands and wives how they can save their marriages in just 10 minutes a
day without them or their husbands or wives going to marriage counseling.
If you want your marriage to be quickly transformed and saved with
some tools that you will never find in books or from most marriage counselors
then please keep reading and I will tell what they are.
Your marriage can go from struggling to thriving, from cold
to loving, from being on the verge of divorce to a satisfying long term
successful marriage.
You can keep your family together and stay in the same home as you always have.
You can keep the same lifestyle and not have to endure the stress of financial hardship.
Your children if you have them can have a mother and father living under the same roof.
Now let’s start at the
beginning of your marriage
Your marriage may have
started out great.
You were in love and your
spouse and they were in love with you.Then one day your
marriage just seemed to change.
You started to feel that
the honeymoon had ended and what took
it’s place is not what you wanted or
bargained for.
You are not sure why it
happened and don’t know how you can reverse it.
You don’t want your
marriage to end up failing and you are willing to try anything to pull it out
of it’s downward death spiral.
But nothing seems to be
working for you and you are getting frustrated and scared that nothing will
ever work.
Why Is It Everything You Are
Doing Is Not Working
And What Can You
Can Do That Will
Save Your Marriage
You think you are doing
things differently but nothing is really working for you.This is the first problem
and why your marriage may fail unless you learn this lesson.
The problem why most
marriages fail is that you are still doing the same things as you always have but you are not seeing your
actions 100% accurately, but it's not your fault!
This is normal. This is the way our minds work unless you dig deeper.
You do things you believe
will help transform and save your marriage but they don’t work and
you don’t have a clue why they didn't work. You say to yourself
confused and bewildered “That should of worked, why didn't it?”
You read about a
technique in a book by a marriage expert in which they say that a certain
technique will work to change your marriage...but it doesn't.
You may have even had a
marriage counselor tell you what to do and it didn't work either.
You may have gotten some
tapes or cd’s and they told you to try some things... but they didn’t work either.
You may have gone to a
marriage seminar and for about a week afterwards you were excited and things
seemed to be getting better then everything feel apart and you were in worse
shape then before except you were now out a bunch of money.
After a while you start
thinking nothing will work and you just give up and get divorced or you decide
continue to live a life of misery and desperation. If you are wondering why
things that are supposed to work don’t then please keep reading.
One of our past clients had a major problem in their marriage and every time they tried to work on it they ended up stuck and angry. The interesting part about this couple was that one was a marriage counselor and the other was a social worker. Both of them had Phd's and a huge amount of information about how to make a marriage work. But nothing worked until they discovered our program.
Do You Wonder Why
Many Smart, Motivated and Madly In Love Wives And Husbands Continue To Do Things That Don’t Work
To Change Their
Marriages?
It doesn't matter how
smart you are.
It doesn't matter how
motivated you are.
It doesn't even matter
how madly in love you are.
What matters is what you
believe about the things that you are doing to save your marriage.
You will keep doing same
things over and over if you really believe that they will eventually work. But here's what happens if they don’t work.
You won’t blame yourself for what you did, you will blame your spouse.You will blame your
spouse since they didn’t respond to the right things you were doing that
should of worked.You will think something
is wrong with them because they should of changed but they didn't.
You may start thinking
that they are stupid, crazy or just plain mean not to respond to what you are
doing for them.
You will keep doing what
isn’t working because your mind is programmed to do what it thinks is right
even if it is the wrong thing to do and doesn’t work.
The key to saving and changing your
marriage is to change what you believe about marriage, your spouse, love and
even yourself.
When you change what you
believe and develop productive beliefs then you change what you think are the right things to do and you start
doing the right things.
Only then will you
actually be able to make your marriage better and the good news is that it will
happen quickly and easily for you.
What My Own
Marriage Was Like Before I Learned How To Saved It And How What I Learned Can
Help Your Marriage
I too once suffered in my marriage. It got so
bad at one point I had called a lawyer to make a appointment to start divorce
proceedings.
I was miserable, there was no communication,
major trust issues, both my wife and I totally misunderstood what we said to
each other and I felt completely abandoned. We were fighting like never before
and it a pretty big mess.
I remember saying to myself “If this is what marriage is all about then
I don’t want any part of it. I am sick of the roller coaster I am on that I
have been calling a marriage.
We went to many different counselors and spent
huge sums of money. My wife thought everything as my fault and I thought everything was her fault. Depending
on the counselor we went to, different ones blamed her and others blamed
me.
I was smart and motivated and loved my wife but
I just couldn’t get past all of the garbage that was occurring on a daily
basis. I knew my marriage was heading
for massive and painful failure if something wasn’t done about it quickly.
I was anxious and scared my marriage was going to end up on the same
scrape pile like so many other of my friends and family marriages’ had
already. I did not think that anything could save my marriage. Fortunately for me I was able
to find the key to making my marriage work.
I
stumbled on a solution that changed our marriage faster then any other
counseling or technique ever did and as a result I was able to save my marriage.
I came back from what I thought was the point of
no return in my marriage. Previously what my wife and I were doing before this solution was hurting each
other and we didn't know how to stop.
I will tell you more about the answer and how it
turned my marriage around. The answer created solutions where there were only
problems before.
It enabled us to communicate more effectively
and do so without hurting each other for the first time in a long time. We
started to once again feel the passion that was so exciting at the beginning of
our marriage.
I was able to transform it from one of stress,
frustration and loneliness to one of
peace, happiness and intimate companionship. We were able to heal the past and
move closer to each other.
My past suffering and the solution I found to it
is the very reason I am writing to you
today.
From Ed's wife Cira who is a clinical psychologist:
Here is a picture of me and my family as we are now with both of us happy to be with each other and united together as one family. However if you have read this letter you know that it wasn't always that way
Cira, Julia and Ed
The
Amazing Thing About The Solution That Changed My Wife Was That She Didn't Do A
Darn Thing To Save Our Marriage Better. She Didn't Even Know What I was Doing And Neither Will Your Spouse.
You may be thinking that this sounds to good to
be true and I thought so myself until I experienced it firsthand.
You may be kept thinking the answers I found
that had changed my marriage and saved it can only work in my marriage and not yours.
You may be thinking that maybe my wife and I are
a exception and that these techniques can only work for us.
You may be thinking that my wife and I had just
gotten lucky and our problems had somehow fixed themselves and you don’t feel
that you are a very lucky person.
You may be thinking that what worked for me will
be too hard or complicated for you to learn.
I thought the same
things as you may have been thinking for a while but I stopped being skeptical
about the solution when I started teaching these techniques and secrets to
other couples.
I saw to my initial
amazement the techniques worked as well and in some cases even better with
other couples some of who had much more severe marriage problems then my wife
and I. Their marriages where saved and I was amazed at the results.
Some of these spouses
had affairs, had not slept together for years and verbally emotionally or
physically abused each other almost every day. Yet the techniques still worked
wonders for them and saved their marriages as well. Because of
these successes I believe they can work
for you too and save your marriage if you decide to try them.
Why Is What You
Believe About Your Marriage and Spouse So Important To Saving Your Marriage?
Here is a quote I believe is true regarding changing your
marriage.
The
only things that stands between a man (woman) and what he (she) wants in life is
often merely the will to try it and the faith to believe that it is possible.
Richard
M. Devos
There is a law that
applies to you and your marriage.
It is often called the
Law Of Belief.
I call it your
Relationship Blue Print RBP and I will refer to it like this in the rest of
this letter.
Your Relationship Blue
Print RBP says whatever you believe with conviction becomes your reality.
You do not believe what
you see: you see what you believe.
You actually see the
world and your marriage filtered through a lens of beliefs, attitudes,
prejudices, stereotypes and preconceived notions.
These filters are why it
is so hard for you to see your actions for what they really are.
Proverbs 23:7 says that
as a man (women) “thinketh in his (her) heart so is he (she).”
This means that you
always act on the outside based on what your innermost beliefs and convictions
tell you about yourself and your world.
Your intense beliefs
become your realities. They determine what happens to you.
Dr. William James of Harvard
said in 1905, “Belief creates the actual fact.” He went on to say, “The
greatest revelation of my generation us is the discovery that individuals, by
changing their inner attitudes of mind, they can change the outer aspects of
their lives.”
This is A Very Important Point Read It Twice!
Here is an important discovery about your Relationship Blue Print RBB.
Even your Relationship Blue Print RBB it is made up of
false beliefs (this is true of most troubled marriages) or beliefs that are in
error about yourself, your marriage, your spouse or the world you live in, as
far as your mind is concerned these are the correct facts.
Since you think they are
correct then you will think, feel and act according to them as if they were
true.
All of the improvement
that will come in your marriage will come from changing your Relationship Blue
Print RBP.
If you change your RBP
you will change everything in your marriage.
You will change your
marriage, you will change your spouse, you will change your sex life, you will
change your conflicts. You will change everything and as a result you will save your marriage.
Napoleon Hill said, “
Whatever the mind of man (woman) can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
You Can Change
And Save Your Marriage In Just 10 Minutes A Day Starting Today If You Want To
You can take less then 10 minutes a day to do some simple
tools and strategies, they require no counseling sessions for you to go to,
cost you very little to learn and can rapidly transform your marriage from
struggling to thriving, from cold to loving, from being on the verge of divorce
to a satisfying long term successful marriage.
You can change the pain and feelings of frustration in your
marriage by changing the negative patterns and beliefs you have learned in the
past.
You change these negative patterns and belief that are
working against you every day and tearing down and destroying your marriage bit
by bit.
You can stop the terrible, hurting and intense conflicts you
have almost overnight.
What Are The Lies,
Myths And Just Bad Information About How You Can Save Your Marriage And Stop
A Possible Divorce Dead In It's Tracks.
Your Relationship Blue Print
RPB is what is destroying your marriage. It isn’t your conflicts, your spouse
ignoring you, your sex life, his family, your family or any other factor that
is hurting your marriage.
Your Relationship Blue Print
RBP is telling you to do things you feel are right but which are destroying
your marriage. Look at the following examples.
BIG MARRIAGE PROBLEM NUMBER ONE
Your
spouse is not talking to you.
You don’t feel emotionally connected to them.
You
know there is a problem but your husband or wife doesn’t want to talk about it.
Your husband or wife may have even
told you that they don’t love you any more.
Your Relationship Blue Print
RBP is telling you that you must talk to them about it.
You must force them to get it
out in the open so you can fix the
problem. You want to fix it and fix them by pressuring them to talk about it.
You just can’t stand to live
in the unknown any longer.
You are anxious and scared
and you think if you can just force them to talk to you then you will convince
them to stay or to love you or whatever you want them to do.
You really believe the right
thing to do is force them to talk to you.
A productive Relationship Blue Print RBP will
tell you the real solution is to give them space and don’t pressure them during a
marriage crisis or any other time.
If you cannot do this you are in
danger of having your marriage end or at a minimum prolong the emotional and
physical distance between you and your spouse indefinitely.
When you try to pressure your
spouse to communicate you are thinking that this behavior shows them your
commitment and love but to them you are being selfish and disrespectful.
One husband whose wife I worked
recently told me that one of the most important things his wife did during
their separation was to back off and let him think. He needed to miss his
wife.
She did not call or email him for
two weeks. Guess who started to call and email saying he missed her within a
week or so?
This means stop calling, stop
emailing, stop text messaging, stop asking for dates/time together etc. If you
want them back, want to restore the emotional connection, solve the problem then
you need to leave them alone.
However as long as your
unproductive Relationship Blue Print RBP is telling you to force them to talk
then you will continue to try to force them to talk.
You will continue to hurt your
marriage until you change your Relationship Blue Print RBP and start believing
that giving your spouse space is the right thing to do.
How long do you leave them alone?
Well it depends on the situation and we cover more of it in later.
BIG MARRIAGE PROBLEM NUMBER TWO
Your spouse has threatened to leave, already
left, told you that they don’t love you any more, is not paying attention to
you and is uncommunicative.
Your Relationship Blue Print
RBP is telling you to express your feelings of love regardless of how your
spouse responds.
You want to do this over and
over until your husband or wife realizes they are wrong about how they feel about you.
You think that by telling them
and over that you love them, it will eventually sink in and will agree with
you.
You need to beg and grovel
until your spouse agrees with you that you love them and that he or she better love you or else.
A productive Relationship Blue Print RBP will
tell you the right thing to do is to be pleasant and polite and stop telling
them how much you love them during a marriage crisis.
Pressure speaks volumes about
desperation and weakness, something most men find incredibly unattractive.
Both men and women want someone who is
respectful, logical, supportive and caring. Begging, pleading, crying,
manipulating and trying to convince them to change their mind will only make you
repulsive and will push them out the door faster than anything else!
You have to be strong and cool.
This does not mean you should ignore them completely. But in general, let them
initiate contact, and if they won’t, don’t bombard them with your feelings, and
try to force them to tell you how much they love you.
Let them know occasionally that you
are their friend and you are there for them or your kids (if you have any) if
she/he need anything.
And what I mean by contact is a
one or two sentence email or voicemail.
Don’t tell them you love them and
miss them in it and don’t use the contact they initiate as an excuse to get them
on the phone and start blabbering about how much you love them, want a second
chance, will change, want to make it work…blah blah blah, because all they hear is exactly that - “blah, blah,
blah, whine, whine, whine moan, moan, moan.” All your husband or wife hears is a pathetic, frightened
man or woman.
Don’t let them see that frightened
person even if that is how you feel.
Who wants to live with and depend
upon someone like this? I wouldn’t. And most other people wouldn’t either.
Patience is your indispensable
friend.
Cloying attempts at affection and
desperation are your biggest enemies.
There is nothing you can say or do
to change their mind. If they do change their mind, it will be on their terms and their schedule – period.
Not expressing your feelings also
means “not issuing ultimatums” such as “you have one month to make a decision,
or I am going to file for divorce.” This is a very bad idea. You will likely
get a divorce. Keep quiet and back off.
BIG MARRIAGE PROBLEM NUMBER THREE
You
feel negative about your marriage, your spouse and feel hopeless that any
solution will work at changing your marriage.
Your
unproductive Relationship Blue Print is telling you that nothing will ever work
which is incorrect.
As a
result of that belief you start feeling hopeless and powerless. You have become
a victim to your circumstances instead of a person who in charge of their
future and destiny.
You react
to anything positive in your marriage as a fluke, a act or a scam and you start
to treat your marriage and your spouse as garbage.
You start
doing things in your marriage that make it even worse because you think that
nothing will make it better so why should you even try. For a little while it
may even feel good to give up because you are acting in sync with your
unproductive Relationship Blue Print RBP.
You start
to treat your spouse with a total lack of respect and when they respond in kind
you say “See he or she really is as bad as I think they are.”
You start
to dismiss any solution as worthless and you are skeptical and negative about
everything regardless of the results it has gotten. You may even be feeling that
way about this program and what you are reading.
A
productive Relationship Blue Print RBP will tell you that you have not found
the right answer yet because there are always solutions to every problem.
The
reality is that you have solved many problems in your life but your mind
doesn’t think about a solved problems.
Your mind has moved on to the next problem.
You have
not yet gotten to the root problem which is your Relationship Blue Print RBP.
Once you
change it, then you will find solutions that you never would of thought of when
your marriage was being run by a negative Relationship Blue Print. This is one
of the hardest beliefs to overcome the feeling
of being negative about your marriage, your spouse and feel hopeless that any
solution will work at changing your marriage.
You can
blast it from existence in just a few minutes once we show you show how.
Why Is It So Hard To Save Your Marriage
I know
doing these things doing this above things are hard. You probably don’t feel
like doing them right now. Even though I know they will work there is still one
big problem with you doing them. You
are programmed to not follow them because of your unproductive Relationship
Blue Print RBP.
Your
Relationship Blue Print must change before your marriage can change. This is
also another one of the big reasons outside of just bad advice most marriage
counseling fails.
What Have Other Unhappy Married Wives Done To Become Happily
Married.
I have worked with many wives and husbands who have been in the same
situation as yourself and they now have great marriages. If it can happen for
them, it can happen for you once you know how to do it. It is not impossible to
change or save your marriage and I can show you how if you let me.
The only difference between them and you right now is the
belief there is something that can
change your marriage. You are not as sure as they are today because you have
not experienced having your marriage totally and easily transformed like they
have.
But if you are easily discouraged, close minded or not
willing to invest a few minutes to read this letter then maybe you are not in
as much pain as I was once in my marriage.
All of these spouses took a chance, were willing to learn and
explored what I had offered them. I once did the same things in my marriage as
they have in theirs. As a result my marriage was saved and so was theirs.
Fact is I
have yet to see a marriage that is beyond repair once I show you what to do.
You
can be like the many husbands and wives I have worked with that were on the verge of ending
their marriages but who are now more in love with their husbands or wives then they ever
thought possible.
You will be shocked and delighted at how wonderful
your marriage can become and how much your husband or wife can change in a short time.
If it can happen for them, there is no reason why it can’t happen for you.
Your
Marriage May Only Have One Chance To Survive And That It Why You Need The Most
Effective Tools, Strategies, 233 Years Of Experience and Information Right Now Because This May
Be Your Last Chance To Save Your Marriage.
I have studied with some very well known names
that have authored hugely successful books and if I mentioned all of their
names you would quickly recognize their names. You probably have seen them
along with myself covered on such shows as 20/20, 48 Hours, USA Today, Today
Show, Oprah Winfrey, The Wall Street Journal, Time, Cosmopolitan, New Woman,
Money, The Chicago Tribune and others.
Here is a picture of myself at a recent seminar with John Grey, Author of "Men Are Mars, Women Are From Venus" the international best seller.
Here are just a few a the famous marriage
transformers that I have worked with in person. There are many more plus there are some not so famous ones that I have learned some remarkable tools and strategies from.
This has enabled me to provide
you the state of the art in rapid marriage transforming tools, strategies and
information. Here are just a few of the more well known marriage transformers.
Dr Scott Stanley is an internationally known
expert on marriage. He showed me show some little known communication
strategies that could create a instant change in your marriage.
Dr Steven Stosny: He
shared with me some insights on anger that just blew my mind. I finally was
able to understand the real issues that you and your spouse get angry about and how you can change your anger
from a negative force to a positive one in just minutes.
Dr. Henry Cloud: He show me what kind of things you can do to
heal your marriage in days and not years.
Dr Lori Gordon: She showed me how you can release negative emotions so they stop
poisoning your marriage and you can create emotional closeness quickly.
Myself and Wade Horn, PhD, Current Assistant Secretary for Children and Families,
Administration for Children and Families, HHS, in the current Bush administration who has been a leader for visionary leadership in helping
show the world that Marriage Matters.
The tools in this course have come from many
sources and are not just limited to the stuff you can find in any bookstore or just my opinion alone. This course is a
warehouse of new materials, 233 years of experience and multiple marriage changing breakthroughs.
WARNING - PLEASE READ THE NEXT TWO LINES
Be careful of any advice that is based on the
opinion of one person because no one person can know everything that you need to
learn to save your marriage.
In My Live Seminars I Have Seen
First Hand How Marriages That Were On The Rocks Can Be More Then Just Saved But They Can Turn Into Great
Marriages In Just A Few Days.
You can talk to the many wives and husbands who have gone to
my marriage seminars and seen such dramatic changes in their marriages they
were in a state of shock as to how quickly what they thought was impossible had
occurred.
Here is why what I do is different from other less effective
approaches.
Most marriage counselors make you dig up the past, waste a
lot of time endlessly talking without giving you any good specific solutions to
your problems, cost a lot of money and take forever if they even get any
results.
Most counselors don’t know how to save or change a
marriage. Listen to what one wife who had been to many marriage counselors without success and hear what she said about our program and what it did to her marriage.
You can learn how to cut right to your hidden underlying problems and solve them, You can get
results in days not years and you can do it very cost effectively. I will show
you what to do exactly so you can quickly have a not just a good but a great
marriage even if the current state of your marriage is near a divorce.
You will be taught how to modify your Relationship Blue Print RBP
so long standing previously unsolvable marriage problems can be quickly solved
without a lot of expensive marriage counseling
Only then can you can create a marriage
where you will get the love, companionship, support and passion you have always
wanted.
If you were in one of my seminars you would of received specific, detailed, and super powerful coaching...it wouldn't just be another seminar for you that I was giving. This was personal, and so teaching intensive that the you would of been amazed at how much you learned in so a short of time.
You could have accomplished in minutes and days what you haven’t been able to accomplish in months or years previously.
Everyone who came to these seminars had to leave their egos, excuses, and defensiveness at the door. Attendees brought their marriages, past beliefs, expectations of marriage, and their problems for me to take apart.
Why did they do this? Because…I then proceeded to identify each unproductive belief, idea, and approach that was in their RBB Relationship Blue Print and was destroying their marriages. I I tore these beliefs, ideas and approaches apart…and then I helped them learn the details of re-assembling their thinking and beliefs so that they could build the marriage that they have always dreamed of.
During the seminar there would be a moment when you see with blinding clarity what makes changing a marriage quickly and permanently seem so obvious and easy.
The information in my seminar that I just described is the same information that I have put in my course that you would get but without the $3495.00 cost and the hassle of travel and time to attend..
You got married to have your emotional and physical needs
met and now you are married and find yourself starving to get them met. You
feel cheated and frustrated that your marriage is not giving you what you
expected it to and you don’t know how to change it so you can get what you want
and need.
You can learn to solve previously unsolvable marriage
problems and this can create the emotional connection that enables will enable
you to get your physical and emotional needs met.
Imagine The Marriage That You Can Have In Less Than
30 Days If You Decide To Take Action Today
Imagine your husband or wife acting in a affectionate and
loving manner toward you just like they did at the beginning of your marriage. He or she
will hug and touch you with the warmth and caring they did in the beginning of your relationship. This is true even
if you have been married ten years or longer.
Imagine having your husband or wife longing to talk and listen
to you while sharing their day with you and being interested in your day. You
will have deeper conversations with more sharing then you have ever had before.
During these conversations your feelings, thoughts and
desires will be treated with respect and regarded as important by your husband or wife.
Imagine your husband or wife being motivated to being totally
honest and open with you. You will trust them more or learn to trust them again
as you create an environment that enables them to grow in honestly and
openness. Your husband or wife will eliminate the any of the so called “secrets” or “misunderstandings”
as they grow emotionally closer to you. You will have the honestly and
cooperation in your marriage that enables you and them to share and build a life
together.
Imagine your husband or wife being committed to the long term
success of your family together. They will learn to respect the importance of
family and of being committed to the moral, educational, emotional and
financial well being of you and your children if you have them.
You don't have to just imagine these things but you can
actually experience them. You finally have a choice in deciding what your want
your marriage to be like.
You Won’t
Lose Your Marriage Because Of Not Trying Hard Enough…You Will Lose Your Marriage By Trying Hard The Wrong Way.
You cannot change or save your marriage by just going to most
counseling sessions or by just changing strategies.
You cannot change or save your marriage by just reading a bunch of
books.
All of them are useless unless you change what controls all
of your actions in your marriage.
Maybe you have tried to will or force yourself to do
something you don't really feel like doing. Most of you that have tried to do this have found you very quickly lose your enthusiasm and
just give up.
That is why it is critical to change your RBB
Relationship Blueprint so you can willingly and easily do what you
need to do. You can do what you need to do because you will feel like doing it
instead grudgingly forcing yourself to go through the motions.
I was a prime example
of this. I was educated in psychology, relationships, was certified in some of
the top marriage education seminars and my wife was a clinical psychologist and
still we couldn't change our marriage until I discovered the secrets in this
course.
Think about it! If my
wife and I with our backgrounds, education and training in psychology couldn't
fix our own marriage until I learned how to change our Relationship Blue Prints
RBB then what chance does the average married person have to save their marriage.
However once you easily learn what I had to learn the hard
way you will be able to stop the frustration, pain and suffering that exists in
your marriage quickly. You will be able to change your marriage from the
shape it is currently is in to one that
is satisfying and recaptures or even exceeds the levels of love that was once
in it.
You will be able to
do all of this without even requiring your spouses' help to change your marriage.
You will also be able save thousands of dollars of counseling
fees and you will not lose your home, your family or your financial security if
your marriage deteriorates into a painful divorce.
You Never Have To Experience The Pain Of Divorce But You Can Experience What Joe Did. Read what he had to say here:
Read what a wife had to say about what our techniques and course did for her marriage:
Are You Thinking This?
Some Of You Reading This Letter May Be Thinking That You Don't Need To Do Anything Because Your Husband Or Wife Is Such A Mess And That If They Just Changed Then Everything In Your Marriage Would Be Fine?
Your marriage would certainly be better if your husband or wife took our course and changed their Relationship Blue Print and then you wouldn't have to do to thing to change your marriage. The problem with this thinking is that you must ask yourself how long are you willing to wait for your husband or wife to change on their own.
While you are waiting ask yourself, how many more fights are you willing to endure?
How much more frustration are you willing to experience?
How much more do you want to suffer while you wait for your spouse to change?
Wouldn't your spouse have changed on their own by now if they knew how? In many cases it's not that they don't want to change, it's that they don't know how to change.
But the future of your marriage does not have to be based on what your husband or wife does or does not do. The future of your marriage can depend on what you do today. You must do something different in order to change your marriage.
Please Read This If You Are Waiting For Your Spouse To Change On Their Own.
Here are some important facts for you to consider about if you are thinking about waiting for your spouse to change on their own.
1. You can't force your spouse to change. You can try all you want and you probably have done so already but unless your spouse wants to change he or she won't change.
2. Even if you could force your spouse to want to change he or she would still have to know how to change their Relationship Blueprint in order to change.
3. You can change your spouse by changing your Relationship Blueprint because then he or she will feel like changing. They will be motivated to change. You will know what you need to do. Your husband or wife doesn't need to know anything because you will know how to change them. Matter of fact they won't even know why they are changing.
Do You Want To Grow Closer To Your Spouse?
Here Are Just Some Of The Things You Will Learn, Any One Of Them Can Totally Transform Your Marriage.
Exposed: The mystery and confusion of understanding your partner actions and why not understanding their actions will doom your marriage.
Revealed: How to understand how the people and experiences in your past created a Relationship Blue print inside of you and your spouse which are destroying your marriage and learn how to eliminate these negative influences forever.
Discover: How you can get control of your life and get off the roller coaster of up and down feelings and days.
New Breakthrough: 12 Ways to change the way you think of things that happen to you so that regardless of how your wife or husband act, what she or he does or doesn't do. You can be content and relaxed. If you don't learn these 12 ways you will continue to experience more pain and stress
Master the secret on how to be happy regardless of your present marriage situation. Hint, many successful marriages have discovered it early in their marriages and that is why they are successful. If you are not happy then you are not applying this secret.
The Little Known Truth about how to consistently respond the way you want to instead of automatically acting out in a negative way based on your strong feelings of hurt, frustration and pain. If you learn this truth you will be able to start building up your marriage instead of tearing it down in emotionally out of control interactions with your spouse.
Uncover The Hidden Motive that lurks in your mind that makes you move away from your spouse instead of moving toward them and why if it continues you will become divorced or live in a emotionally unconnected and unsatisfying marriage.
Experience how to analyze your conflicts so that you can stop fighting over the same things over and over and begin to solve those longstanding previously unsolvable problems. If you don't then you will continue to fight over the same things forever.
Discover what stage your marriage is and find out why not knowing this can create a divorce faster then anything else. This is a big problem because if you use the wrong techniques they can cause even more problems in your marriage.
Find out why the honeymoon phase of your marriage ended and what you can do to bring it back so that you can experience the same feelings and pleasure as before.
Master the little known secret about why the differences that you have with your husband or wife really don't matter much regarding whether or not your marriage will be successful. Not knowing this secret magnifies every problem you have.
Uncover the hidden reason that is the largest factor why many people divorce and and how you can avoid the pain and hassle of divorce by changing this single factor.
Solve the mystery of recognizing why you and your spouse have grown apart even when both of you really wanted to stay emotionally close.
Uncover the truth about how your mind really works and why you and most people don't understand why they do the things that they do to their spouse. Not knowing this creates more divorces then almost anything else and most marriage counselors don't teach it.
Solve the mystery of understanding why your partner thinks and acts differently than you do and why not understanding is the biggest causes of most of the conflicts you are having.
The surprising secret about how to keep your marriage problems from affecting your entire life so that you can enjoy other parts of your life. The alternative is to have your entire life be unsatisfying.
The hidden three reasons, until now why you avoid seeing the solutions to your marriage problems. Learn them and they will set you free to have a great marriage and solve any problem in it. Don't learn them and you may never find the solutions that you need to be happier.
The very best ways to change your partner that if you don't learn them you will be resisted and fought by your spouse at every attempt to solve your marriage problems.
The latest ways to learn what negative Relationship Blue Print beliefs you really have about love and how some of those beliefs will keep you from getting the kind of love you want from your spouse.
Find out which of the top ten negative thinking patterns are causing most of your marriage problems and learn how to quickly eliminate them. The alternative is to continue living the way you have and continue having the kind of marriage you have currently.
Master the simple technique that can show you how to give up trying to control your partner. If you don't lean it then you will experience some of the greatest frustration imaginable by trying to control a person who does not want to be controlled.
New breakthrough: Learn how to be motivated to fix your marriage even if you don't feel like it. If you only wait to fix your marriage when you feel like it you may be divorced before you do something about it.
Brand New: How to overcome the eight reasons that you keep doing what is not getting you what you want in your marriage. If you don't learn them you will keep doing what isn't working for you.
How to eliminate the 22 words in your vocabulary some of which will shock you that cause you the most pain in your life so that you can feel more joy and happiness in your marriage and life. Living in pain should not be a option any longer for you if you eliminate these words.
How to rethink any situation and change your response so that you can turn a negative situation in your marriage into a positive one in just seconds. In most troubled marriages, a positive situation turns into a negative one far too often.
Master the six ways that can change your marriage for the better in 10 seconds or less. Most unsuccessful couples don't know any of the six.
How to calm and sooth yourself whenever you feel frustrated, hurt, or angry over something that your spouse has done so your happiness is not at the mercy of whatever your spouse does. This is much better then going down a negative trail of up and down days at the mercy of however your spouse feels that day.
Finally learn how to create personal power in your marriage by empowering your new thinking patterns so that you can speak up and express your needs and desires. If you don't get this personal power you will not be able to speak for yourself and get what you want from your spouse.
A Amazing Way to create a new path of thinking that transforms your marriage in just a few minutes a day. Remember the old paths of thinking have gotten you the kind of marriage you currently have.
A exciting simple promise that you make to yourself that will change everything about your marriage. You don't need your spouse's permission to change your marriage any longer.
New Technique Just Added: How to create a simple 3x5 index card that can dramatically change your marriage. All the books in the world cannot replace this one powerful card.
14 little known secrets that spouses in successful marriages use to maintain the improvements in their thinking and marriage so that it continues to be a great source of joy, pleasure, and love forever.
This is just the tip of the iceberg regarding what you are going to be able to do after our coaching program. There's Much, Much More To It but I know what you don't want me to make this long letter any longer then it already is. If you are wondering if something will be included Call Me at 1-847-372-4307 and ask me.
What Are Your Current Options To Change Your Marriage?
You really only have the following 6 options to change your marriage. Here they are:
1. You can try to find a good marriage counselor which is difficult to say the least. In my interviews with marriage counselors I have found less then 5% of them to be competent.
If you do find one you will probably spend about $100.00 per hour and have to go for about a year or two for it to do any good. In many cases they will require your spouse to go with you. That's going to cost you about $5,200.00 to $10,400.00 to save your marriage if it can last that long in the shape it is in without one of you filing for divorce.
Now the money is a small price to pay to save your marriage but you don't have to pay anywhere here that if you decide on our marriage program.
2. You can pay for a divorce in which case the national average for legal fees is $30,000.00 plus you will lose half of your joint net worth. This will dramatically and negatively effect your current and future lifestyle especially if you a female based on national statistics. You won't have to pay anywhere near this for our marriage solution.
3. You can go to one of our live seminars which can work wonders for your marriage. The problem is that I am booked about 6 to 12 months ahead of time and the cost is $3495.00. Our new program is the closet you can get to our live seminars and costs a fraction of the price.
4. You can buy a bunch of cheap ebooks and marriage courses that you find in Google and hope for the best. Most people won't take this alternative with something as important as their marriage. If you are one of the kind of people that is willing to only invest $49.00 to save their marriage then I don't want you as a client because the odds are you will be divorced soon.
Our solution is not a just a ebook or a bunch of tapes or cd's but it is a intensive one on one learning, problem solving and coaching program.
5. You can keep doing what you are doing and do nothing differently. If that is what you want to do then my heart goes out to you. You will probably be divorced within a short time period or will live a life of miserly and unfullfillment in your marriage.
In my experience marriages do not say the same, they either get better if you learn how to make them better or they get worse if you keep doing what you have been doing. There is no staying the same.
6. You can order our Marriage Changing Program for $47.00 right now and save your marriage.
What This Program Is Not:
This is not another ebook that will sit on your computer.
This is not another book that you will read and put on the shelf because it was too complicated or took too long to read.
This is not another bunch of cassette tapes, cd's or videos that you won't be able to implement in a real life marriage.
This is not another impersonal cookie cutter solution that probably won't work for you and your marriage.
This is not a counseling session that will be hit or miss depending on who you talk to.
This is not a grossly expensive marriage counseling program that may or may not work for you.
This is not another bland, boring and non motivating approach.
This is also not the cheapest program out there. If you are looking to skimp a few dollars and that it is the determining factor in what you decide to do with your marriage then you might as well stop reading right now. If you don't think that your marriage is worth spending a few dollars to save or change it you are probably going to be in a divorce that will cost you anywhere from 100 to 1000 times more then our course.
What this Program is:
The Gold Marriage Changing Program is able to take your marriage out of the crisis situation that it may be currently in and it will greatly reduce the chances that either you or your spouse will seriously think about getting a divorce.
It can stop a potential or in process divorce dead in it's tracks. It will also keep your marriage from ever reaching that stage if it is not yet there.
I believe that prevention is better then intervention when it come to marriage survival. The Gold package is designed to achieve the greatest amount of positive marriage change in the shortest possible time. It consists of the following marriage saving components.
1
A Immediate Electronic Download of the Revolutionary Marriage and Spouse Changing Course called "How To Change Your Mind And Change Your Marriage" You receive this right away after you order. This will be in your hands within 5 minutes from now. A 147.00 Value.
2
FREE BONUS
The exclusive course “How To Get Your Spouse To Work on the Problems In Your Marriage ” which teaches you how to get your partner to finally see what the problems in your marriage are so that you can work on them together instead of you having to do everything yourself. Downloaded within 5 minutes from now. A $69.00 Value.
3
FREE BONUS
Unlimited 24/7 Email Mail Access to myself so you can ask all of the questions that you want During the next 12 weeks of coaching. A $275.00 value.
4
FREE BONUS
One 15-Minute One On One Telephone Coaching Sessions With Myself Edward Zajac.You will get this coaching session at no cost as part of the coaching package versus my normal charge of $250.00 per hour. They are usable any time but must be used within 3 month. These are laser focused, cut to issue, blunt, honest and powerful calls in which you get customized one on one problem solving with myself. Calls must be pre-scheduled. A $125.00 value.
5
FREE BONUS
The Ebook Companion Workbook to the course "How To Change Your Mind And Change Your Marriage"containing over 172 pages of tools and fill in the blank sections that will become a blueprint for changing your marriage. Downloaded within 5 minutes from now.
A $ 49.00 Value.
6
FREE BONUS
The Exclusive 12-Month Email Course “How to Get the Power to Change Your Marriage and Make it Strong” in which you get one on one email instruction on how apply what you have learned in the course over the course of 12 monthly. You get a monthly marriage-building course with the latest tools, techniques and information. A $99.00 Value.
The Total Value of the Gold Version Coaching Program if Purchased Separately is $772.00 I have Been Told That It Was Bargain At That Price Since It Could Save A Possible Divorce And Create A Great Marriage.
Your Fully Guaranteed Investment is only $47.00 payable in one installment.
I will be raising the price in the near future. The reason that the price is so low is that I have temporarily priced this program as a marketing test for next few days.
Price subject to change without notice.
All orders are limited by my time availability to do the one on one coaching bonus and any future offering of this program may be also canceled without notice.
ARE YOU WILLING TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR JUST $47.00?
If You Are
You Sick and Tired Of Hearing These Things And Living The Way You Are Living Then Make A Decision To Change It Right Now?
You may be fed up with the crap your husband or wife is
giving you.
You may be so tired of fighting from dawn to dusk, tired of feeling
unappreciated and rejected, tired of living with a person who was totally
different from the person you married. You need to put your foot down and say
that you are not going to live this way again.
I stumbled on a solution that changed everything
in my marriage and it can change yours.
I want you to put your foot down and say to
yourself that you don’t have to live like you have or hear any of the following
things again:
You don’t have tolive with someone who tells you they
just don’t want to do this marriage thing any more.
You don’t have to live hearing your
spouse say they don’t not like the
person you are and tells you they don’t
not love you any more.
You don’t have to hear they don’t think you will ever change and be the person they want/need you to be.
You don’t have to hear you will never accept then for who they are and then they say all their old feelings of love for you will
never come back.
All the while they can’t look in your
eyes when they are saying these things.
You want them to change and stop
doing and saying all of these hurtful things.
Maybe a life like that is good for some people, but it
wasn’t good enough for me and once you get our solution it won’t be good enough
for you either.
After you learn our solution, you’ll never, ever consider
living that way again.
However if you don’t act today and order our program, your
marriage and life will continue to be what it currently is and if you are
reading this letter that is not what you want.
Don't be Concerned About Making A Mistake In Ordering Our Course Because We Are Offer You A 100% Satisfaction Guarantee.
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I'm absolutely confident that if you had these Marriage and Spouse Changing Secrets at your disposal right now, you'd readily agree they were worth far more than their measly price tag. After all what is the emotional, financial, physical and spiritual cost of a divorce compared to the few dollars you spend today on one of the versions listed.
Guarantee Number One. If you're not absolutely in love with this Marriage and Spouse Changing Secrets, simply send me an email within 30 days of starting the program and you won't even pay a dime for it.
Guarantee Number two. You have one year after you have completed the Marriage and Spouse Changing Secrets Course to request a refund for any reason whatsoever. There will be no hassle, no questions, just a quick refund.
BUT YOU CAN STILL KEEP MY ENTIRE ELECTRONIC VERSION AND ALL OF THE ELECTRONIC BONUSES OF THE COURSE FOR FREE
I realize I'm going out on a huge limb here. And yes, there are probably people out there who will take advantage of me and use this generous offer as a way to just get a free Marriage and Spouse Changing Course.
But that's a risk I'm willing to take because I KNOW these Marriage and Spouse Changing secrets will change your life and your marriage the way they did mine. And I trust you. Your word is gold here.
However There Is A Catch
However, there is a catch. The truth is, I've never offered this system on a trial basis like this. And because I'm a little new at it, I'm may or not only make this offer good until midnight tomorrow.
After that, the price will go back to normal while I watch the dust settle. Frankly, I'm a little worried that too many people will take the trial that I'll be overwhelmed with orders and unable to provide the high level of personalized service my customers deserve.
So I'm only making this available for a little while. in fact, I might even take the offer down BEFORE midnight tomorrow if I get too many "takers". There are no guarantees about the price staying the same.
So if you're serious about having the Best Marriage you can possible have or Saving Your Marriage, Select our coaching program clicking on the order button and take my risk free trial today.
Also remember that even if the thirty days goes by and you chose to keep the course, you still have 1 year in which to return the materials for a 100% refund. All you have to do is email and let me know that you want a refund. There will be no hassles, no hard feelings and no questions asked. I will respect your decision and respond with a refund immediately.
Why Would I Offer Such A Strong Guarantee That No Other Competitor Dares To Make?
The reason that I am offering such strong guarantees is to help those people have purchased courses or counseling in the past and have wasted their money. I also wanted those people that don't know me from Adam and who are skeptical to feel comfortable about purchasing.
I don't want to see any person's marriage go down the drain because of a bad experience that they may have had in the past with somebody else. I wanted to make my guarantee so strong that it makes it impossible for you not to get what you have paid for which is and for you to change your marriage and spouse. Please take action now by clicking the following button.
Remember Most Husbands And Wives Don't Lose Their Marriage Because Of Not Trying Hard Enough… They Lose Their Marriage By Trying Hard The Wrong Way.
Most Spouses Will Make The Choice With The Least Risk And Order Our Program Today Versus Risking Losing Their Marriages
If you are one of the spouses who have made a choice to order our coaching program, I want to tell you that I am honored that you have chosen me to help you change your marriage. My information and help will guide you step by step through the process during this delicate time. I am here for you. You will have me me personally coaching you on how to approach the important issues in your marriage. You will know what to do, Exactly WHAT to say and HOW to say it
The final results of your decision today to order or not order our course won't be known right away, however, the results will be very clear to you at some point in the future. It is your chance right now to create the kind of future that you want to have. Let me help you.
Sincerely,
Edward S. Zajac
President of Relationship Builders of America
PS. It's TRUE you can quickly change your husband or wife back into the person that you fell in love with and with whom you couldn't wait to marry for only $47.00. You can accomplish this without fighting, yelling or threatening her using some simple but very powerful tools and you will be able to do it without expensive and many times ineffective marriage counseling .
PSS. ORDER WITHOUT RISK. There's no risk for you since our programs are 100% fully iron clad guaranteed to help you get the marriage you want or to save your marriage or you pay nothing.
A final thought for you to consider about your marriage…
it's important…
Here it is again.....Many Husbands And Wives Lead Lives Of Quiet Desperation Until One Day They Explode Into A Painful Divorce.
The saddest part of this situation is that in most cases nothing really effective is done to change their marriages downward spiral towards its death. I hope and pray that these descriptions will not describe the future of your marriage because your marriage can have a bright future if learn to do some simple tools and techniques today.
Edward S. Zajac
Relationship Builders of America
3875 Thornberry Way
| Lake In The Hills, IL 60156
1-847-372-4307